Mixing alcohol with fear unleashes more fear and dominates the personality. Likewise, in the case of the neglected child, fear is instilled from childhood, and through regular alcohol intake, fear is accentuated beyond control.
Thus, we find that the basic ingredient in every alcoholic personality is an abnormal fear element that lies behind and motivates most of the abnormal and inhuman behaviour of the alcoholic which is so trying to, and misunderstood by, those nearest and dearest to him or her.

The abnormal condition of fear is responsible for the four basic traits found in every alcoholic:

  1. Sensitivity
  2. Childishness
  3. Egocentricity
  4. Grandiosity.

These are usually operative in the area of the subconscious. They are manifested in the consciousness by:

  • Irritability
  • Restlessness
  • Frustration
  • Selfishness
  • Aggressiveness
  • Depression
  • Loneliness
  • Elation (could be Bipolar 1)
  • Nervousness
  • Dishonesty

All of these “quirks” of the alcoholic personality stem from the basic abnormal fear motive. It is the reason that an alcoholic must be approached, not with the idea of correcting the above “defects” but with the hope of instilling faith and confidence to offset the basic element of fear.

The basis of their defects if a self-centred fear. Primarily fear that they would lose something they already possessed or would fail to get something they demanded. Living upon the basis of unsatisfied demands, they are in a state of continual disturbance and frustration. Therefore, no peace of mind is possible until they stop fighting the fact that they are alcoholic and get help.

Most alcoholics stay in denial until the day they die. Very few actually get help for their disease, preferring to blame everyone else for their unhappiness. “If only, what if and should have” is their ‘war cry’ and they will not accept the fact that they are in denial.

There are many resources available to the alcoholic to help him or her achieve a successful sobriety. I have seen many ladies over the years that are still sober today. How do I know?  They keep in touch with me on a regular basis. They have adhered to the program they were first introduced to when they commenced counselling.

They also take their supplements, including Tyrosine and L-Glutamine, to help balance their brain chemistry.  L-Glutamine supports efficient brain function and is the body’s most potent antioxidant and detoxifier. Tyrosine Mood Food is necessary for the manufacture of dopamine and noradrenaline, which are required for concentration, alertness, memory and a happy, stable mood.

I also recommend Magnesium Ultra Potent to help them reduce stress and assist with a deep and restful sleep without having to use drugs or alcohol.

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