How to stay sober, one day at a time
The unhappiest person in the world is the chronic alcoholic who has an insistent yearning to enjoy life as she once knew it, but cannot picture life without alcohol. She has a heart-breaking obsession that by some miracle of control she will be able to do so.
Sobriety is the most important thing in your life without exception. You may believe your job, or your home life, or one of many other things come first. But consider, if you do not get sober and stay sober, chances are you won’t have a job, a family, sanity or even life.
If you are convinced that everything in life depends on your sobriety, you have just so much more chance of getting sober and staying sober. If you put other things first you are only hurting your chances. If you are still blaming other people, places, things and situations, you are in denial.
You can take the alcohol out of the fruitcake but you still have the fruitcake. You need to get professional help to change your self-talk (thinking) to change your feelings (emotions) to ultimately, change your behaviour.
How important is it? Think about your last drink and how it affected you.
Cultivate continued acceptance of the fact that your choice is between being unhappy, drunk, and out-of-control drinking and doing without just one small drink.
It’s the first drink, not the 5th or the 6th, that starts off the compulsion. Don’t take the first drink and you won’t get drunk. The drunk takes the drink and the drink takes the drunk.
Cultivate enthusiastic gratitude you have had the good fortune of find out what was wrong with you before it was too late. Develop an attitude of gratitude for getting sober and staying sober, one day at a time. Gratitude that you are only a victim of a disease called alcoholism and that you are not a degenerate, bad or immoral person but a sick person wanting to get well.
Expect as being natural and inevitable, that for a period of time, and it may be a long one, you will recurringly experience:
- The conscious, nagging craving for a drink
- The sudden, all but compelling impulse just to take a drink
- The craving, not for a drink as such, but for the soothing glow and warmth a drink or two once gave you.
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